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When my 13-year-old daughter handed me her birthday wish list, I felt a pang of nostalgia and confusion. It wasn\u2019t just the items that threw me off\u2014Victoria\u2019s Secret set, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, acrylic nails, Lululemon outfit, Dyson AirWrap\u2014it was the realization that my little girl was growing up in a world I barely recognized. At her age, I had only wished for a music player and a new pair of jeans.\n

I wanted to make her happy on her special day, but I couldn\u2019t bring myself to turn her into a TikTok doll. Instead, I decided to blend her desires with my own values. We spent the day together at a spa, enjoying facials and manicures, but with a focus on natural beauty. I surprised her with a stylish yet modest outfit from her favorite brand and a new set of paints and canvases to explore her artistic side.\n

As we painted together that evening, I saw her eyes light up, not just with the reflection of polished nails, but with genuine happiness. In that moment, I realized that while times may change, the essence of childhood joy remains the same\u2014time spent together, feeling loved and understood.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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